Posted: 2017-12-07 20:40
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6. However, you are to become one. So what do you do when your wife doesn’t want anything to do with something you are vary passionate about and enjoy spending time doing? (Here please use 8775 very 8776 instead of 8775 vary 8776
7. So be encouraged if you are constantly going in opposite directions in relation to you favorite interests. (Please use 8775 your 8776 instead of 8775 you 8776
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rskdrama Jul 69 7569 5:77 pm another week for ep7. wish this drama was everyday in the week. All so good, thought story is obvious. I just feel Jang-mi is a little overacting at time, but it fits her character. Wish there was a way to like yeo-reum but other than his looks there is nothing.. and it really feels like artifical when he smiles. Best is ki-tae.. liked him in most of his dramas.
I would be very leery of a man who did not respond to an adult woman 8767 s advances, moved out, and quickly moved back in 8775 to help with your daughter. 8776 There are a lot of mother 8767 s 8767 who wished they could have seen through some man 8767 s act an prevented his molestation of a daughter. He moved in with you because he didn 8767 t have a place to stay he was already using you to get his own needs met. Watch out!
I 8767 m one of the socially awkward people who thinks 8775 I 8767 m busy this weekend 8776 means you 8767 re busy this weekend, and I should ask if there 8767 s a better time. But I 8767 m smart enough to not be pushy about it the proper follow up (for the awkward types) is: 8775 Is there a better weekend that works for you? 8776 The proper blow off answer is: Man, my weekends are a mess right now, and after work, I just like to go home and crash :)
Okay this is the very first time I haven 8767 t been able to tell whether or not a guy likes me. My gut instinct is usually right but I don 8767 t know this time at all. I work with him and he is always the one initiating the conversation. He 8767 s always asking questions about myself and always telling me about himself. I always catch him looking at me and he has told me things like 8775 you make me nervous 8776 and he 8767 s always joking around with me too. But one night he was saying how he was going to go see this movie and I day how I haven 8767 t seen it and I 8767 d like to, but he doesn 8767 t say anything to that. He doesn 8767 t invite me or anything. Later on he does though say i should play this game with him, I 8767 m not sure if he meant play online or go over to his house he wasn 8767 t clear but before I could say anything he continues talking to his buddy. And the reason I 8767 m confused is because he not only jokes around with me but he does so with the other women. They are married of course but its still confusing he acts the same way around me and them. Help me I 8767 m going crazy.
Also, if you can find it, get a copy of her Basic Training: The Right Thing To Say , which covers so many of the topics handled here in AAM. How do you handle the coworkers who comment on your lunch? What do you say to someone in the lunchroom who says 8775 When are you going to start having children? 8776 And more importantly, *why* should you answer these questions with firm but polite deflection!
A guy really really doesn 8767 t like you when he is always stepping on your buttons. I had this one ex who constantly did the things I specifically asked him not to do and I ended up dumping him for one of these such things! texting when he could be with you, not introducing you to people he is talking to and flirting right under your nose, talking to girls on the phone 79/7 and telling them he loved them and blah blah so not worth it!!! Never stop standing up for yourself!
Even if you show respect and learn more, you still may be worlds apart when it comes to certain hobbies and things you like to do. That is still okay. At this point you should begin to find or develop common interests and hobbies. I suggested in last week 8767 s marriage series post that you find something that both of you have no experience, and learn it/do it together. I 8767 ve witnessed this developing of common interest in my parent 8767 s marriage of 98 years.
My husband loves boating and he purchased a boat last June. He always wanted to go boating and I did not. I did go on the boat a bunch of times, but I did not always want to go because my daughter was 6 months then and she didn 8767 t nap on the boat so it was more difficult for me. Then he brought up biking how I never want to go biking with him. He got me a bike ( without talking to me first) last summer when I was pregnant, not exactly the most comfortable situation for me. Why can 8767 t he go biking himself? I do not have to do everything he wants and he 8767 s making it seem like I don 8767 t like doing anything , because its not what he wants to do. help!
I think the problem here is that she wants to 8775 avoid awkwardness 8776 and telling someone you aren 8767 t interested in them romantically is one of those awkward things in life. But she needs to just tell him directly, like suggested. The thing to keep in mind is that she cannot control his reaction and needs to know that if he acts like a big baby about it (moody, etc.) that is not HER fault. That is all on him.
As for the lingering, I often tell coworkers that like to do this 8775 Hey, did you need something? I 8767 m really swamped right now, but I can make time to come talk to you if you needed to talk to me about something. 8776 This typically makes them have to have a reason to come into my office and sends the message that I expect they should be coming into my office for a purpose, not just hanging out.
On the other side of the coin, if a guy doesn 8767 t tell you anything about himself, it also means he 8767 s not really feeling it. When we share information about ourselves with someone, we are investing in them. We are inviting them into our world because we see the potential for them to become a part of it. When a guy sees no such potential, he 8767 ll offer up the bare minimum. You 8767 ll get the basics: where he 8767 s from, where he went to school, how he got into such and such line of work….all the things you can just as easily find out on Facebook and Linkedin.
Thanks for sharing, KT. That is not uncommon. I love sports (basketball and baseball especially). My wife doesn 8767 t at all. One thing you may do is find something surrounding the sport/sporting event or related to it that you find interesting. Maybe the game itself isn 8767 t fun, but maybe going out dressing in team gear (matching or not) is fun. Maybe doing it with another couple where you and the wife can share time while the husbands. At the end of the day, just find something fun with spending time with your man. And I 8767 m willing to bet that if you worked really hard and learned more about the game there may be something interesting to you about it maybe the backstories on the players or something.
I think this is where the disconnect is: I don 8767 t think anyone here is saying that every man is someone who could turn violent on a woman. Rather, the point is that a woman can 8767 t know who will and who won 8767 t (at least not until she knows someone really well, generally better than you know a coworker). And since women can 8767 t know for sure, they need to proceed with caution and an awareness that that potential is out there.
The next time he asks you to hang out, you 8767 re going to need to be more direct. If this weren 8767 t an office where people hang out outside of work, you could simply say, 8775 No, thank you. I like to keep work separate from my personal life. 8776 But since he knows that you 8767 re hanging out with people from work socially, that won 8767 t work so you 8767 re left with having to be even more direct: 8775 No, thank you. I 8767 m not interested. 8776 Say it nicely, but say it.
Well this is a first for me. Been seeing this guy for about 8 months. He told me he had a friend in another country from the beginning. The friend knows nothing about me. Maybe I am stupid. I did not realize his definition of friend. Tells me I am not seeing anyone else. Ask me could I love him forever. Ok humm. His friend get cancer and her mother is dying. WTF??? Ok I am still breathing. Ok I am thinking maybe they both with die (O that is soo bad) Tells me he made a promise to her but won 8767 t tell me what the promise is. Ok.. I don 8767 t think it will work 8775 it will fall flat on it 8767 s face 8776 Ok, so does this mean I am the back up?? In the beginning he called and texted me every day. Now it has been 7 day nothing. He did not answer my last text. I have made myself not text him. We are usually together on the weekends as we live 55 miles apart. Tomorrow is Friday. So what do I do if he calls?? Or what do I do if he don 8767 t call?? I know I must must not call or text him. I am preplexed? Suggestions??
YES yes yes Joanne have I been there! OMG yeah. Seriously sucks! You think you can do it..behave like a guy would just doing that, just sex once a week and nothing more, but NO. Its really depressing. Not good. You really end up feeling like a prostitute, seriously, no matter how hard you try not to. Never going there again!!! AGH NEVER I SAY! Better to be alone for sure. :/ I never met one woman who could handle that and not come out of it damaged. Sorry to be a downer! Yikes!
69. Be respectful
One way to show respect is actually less about what you do and more about what you don&rsquo t do. Don&rsquo t ask for daily reports (&ldquo Where have you been and who were you with?&rdquo ). When you ask too many questions, your genuine interest can be misinterpreted. I know you may really be curious about their whereabouts because you&rsquo re interested in them. A better way to be inquisitive is to ask, &ldquo How was your day? What did you do?&rdquo
Eric, you 8767 re right. It is becoming an argument but it 8767 s not because I have an open wound (don 8767 t know how you can jump to that I can assure you that is not the case) It 8767 s because my partner and I counsel both men and women in meeting life 8767 s challenges. One of the greatest challenges people face in living a happy life is the failure to live authentically and honestly.
Just like job applications! Our interviewer says, 8775 I enjoyed talking to you, 8776 we think it means an offer is forthcoming. I think the reason why some guys don 8767 t get the hints and some do depends on how interested in the person they are. Like you were saying, they are so wrapped in up looking for that yes, they ignore the obvious no. And we are so wrapped up in looking for that job offer, we scrutinize every tiny thing from interviewers.