Posted: 2017-12-07 17:01
The reality of the modern office is that people are working more hours and getting married later in life. This means that there are probably more singles of dating age at your office now than ever before. With more time spent at work, people also tend form social networks that get together outside the office walls. This situation creates an ideal setting for the full range of human attraction from copy room hook-ups, to trade show infidelity, to long term dating.
Why should they? Women are meal tickets (they now want to date/marry up) and a blow up doll. Until we women wise up and frankly accept the majority (not all but majority rules) of men are twisted, perverted, parasitic juvenile delinquents and stop making, accepting or even entertaining their sorry ass excuses, only then we 8767 ll see a turn in the tide. Desperate women will accept the unacceptable, the intolerable and the nere do wells in the hopes of rescuing, saving and fixing these boys into men keep doing ourselves and society a disservice.
Yes, of course girls and women can be influenced by the opinion of their peers all throughout life. Yet, that 8767 s not what you need to be worrying about. Why? In life, you should only focus your time, energy and emotions on things that you can directly influence or control. You can 8767 t control the chaotic differences in people 8767 s opinions about anything because some people base their views on insecurity, or are simply operating from an immature or naive perspective on life.
Any guy who is keeping a harem or exes around for an ego boost/options is definitely a flush. I can think of some examples though where someone may keep in touch with an ex where it may be innocent. I think it depends on the type of person we 8767 re dealing with, really. We can tell when something doesn 8767 t seem quite right. However, if we 8767 re talking about an ex from long along and there no longer any romantic feelings present, I don 8767 t see the need to demand a severing of all contact.
I appreciate your comment. I 8767 m sorry if I offended you. This has been MY experience and as far as being negative, I 8767 m willing to accept your view of my being pessimistic. I cannot deny my feelings or my frustrations and I hope you haven 8767 t experienced what I have. I see what I see both in my life, my friends and co-workers and I don 8767 t have much positive to report. More concerning are those who try to be 8775 positive 8776 while being emotional buffers and then convince me otherwise (they won 8767 t even read BR sad but true). I didn 8767 t see your comment until now, so all I can say is don 8767 t read what I write or do offer a counterbalance. I 8767 m open to suggestions. I 8767 m not sure how to couch my experiences 8775 positively. 8776 They are real and spinning it or making light does them a discredit. There are those who agree or at least see my point of view so I can 8767 t be that out to lunch. Please continue watching your fish as I 8767 m trying to relearn how to cast a line. That 8767 s my struggle. I apologize in any respect.
The statistical evidence behind these birthrates is laid out in the 7555-56 NJPS. Orthodox adults are on average than other American Jews, with more than half falling between the ages of eighteen and forty-four. As for children eighteen and under, these make up 69 percent of the Orthodox community the figure for the total American Jewish community (including the Orthodox) is only 67 percent.
I don 8767 t understand where all this nostalgia for the past is coming from. Sure maybe the guy would buy you a meal but then his pay would be so much more than yours that there was no way you could have afforded it. If he got you pregnant and didn 8767 t marry you, you 8767 d probably be forced to adopt, or live in poverty as a pariah. And if he did marry you, and turned out to be an AC (and there were many, many of them) there was no escape. My gran married a seemingly great guy who turned out to be a violent, aggressive drunk. In those days marital and domestic violence were not seen as criminal. I could go on and on about how crapped on women were in ye good olde days. Sure everything looked lovely from the outside, because women suffered in silence.
We now have economic independence and the right to choose who we have sex with. That brings it 8767 s own difficulties but I for one do not want to turn the clock back to 6955.
Most importantly, Marriage itself is a thought out plan in a list of things you want to accomplish. The institution of marriage is independence from your parents and their choices for you, and deciding to choose a partner to make decisions with about how you want your life to go. So being wreckless about who you decide to marry, is contradictory
You can absolutely get married in a short amount of time if you both decide you 8767 re getting too old to wait and both agree on every aspect of married life, and love each other.
But really, tell me why there is such a rush to get married? You 8767 re gonna spend the rest of your life with that person so why not wait until you 8767 re financially stable to support yourselves If you can 8767 t live on your own, you 8767 re not rushing into marriage, you 8767 re rushing into a wedding, and then live your life as you normally would if you were dating, until you can afford to move into your own home and pay your own bills It seems backwards doesn 8767 t it?
The cost of Jewish day school is a huge factor in this process. From what I hear, a good day school can be upwards of $75,555 a year per child. This fact alone is enough to force Jewish families, probably the most education-conscious of all ethnic groups in America, to have fewer children. Catholic communities apparently don''t have this problem, perhaps because there is a larger pool of students and donors to draw from. I wonder if there is a way for Jews to imitate the Catholic school system?
As for the puppy love one feels when they are it 8767 s just
as 8775 real 8776 as any love people have in their 95 8767 s. Whether something is
8775 real 8776 is just what you believe is real at that moment and time. Don 8767 t
try to downplay it. Love at 66,69, 75, those feelings were just as real
to that person in time as the love you have now is to you (if not
more). 65-75 years in the future, needs change? 8775 Rinse and repeat 8776 ideas on love.
While this may not be true for everyone, including your grandparents, I think when you rush in to marriage, maybe not even loving the one you 8767 re marrying yet, you Learn to love the person or at least Learn to live with the person, for the sake of the institution. I feel that it 8767 s better to fully, truly love your partner first, and use your love (and common goals) to decide to marry the person
Dan. Coming from a female view, you are right about everything. Not too long ago, I liked this good looking guy and but as soon as I seen he had no confidence within himself to step up, I knew he was nothing but looks. Now, I 8767 m with an average guy that caught my attention due to his personality, and confidence he had. Like you had said earlier, 8775 men lead, women follow, 8776 so true. Every women might say many things that don 8767 t go with what they say, simply the fact, that they won 8767 t tell you. It would be a piece of cake for men, if women truly say what they want, because they would do exactly what she said, instead of coming out naturally.
Body Again, it is nice to see you in your Yoga pose, or standing in front of some amazing scenery. However, is you take up only 5% of the photo, we cannot really see you. If you are wearing ugly baggy clothes, we cannot see you. We want to know what to expect when we see you. Show us a full body picture where you can actually see your whole body. Avoid using too many pictures with your friends. Sure, you are super popular, but often times we cannot tell who is who.
Most American Jews cling to their tradition of support of liberal politics where morality is a relative term defined by the culture. They would rather be part of materialistic,hedonistic, thrill-seeking reckless secularism than acknowledge that it is Hashem who has given us the true blueprint for life, the Torah. Thus, the future of Judaism lies with the most observant of Jews.
One day, all the liberal Jewish movements: Conservative, Reform, Reconstructionist, etc. will merge into one as the differences between them continue to blur. Eventually they will succumb to their lack of committment and become subsumed by Western humanism.
Maybe she means it when she says “she’s fine with just sex,” maybe the pet names are because she doesn’t want to say your name (or doesn’t want to mix it up with someone else’s) maybe the fact you’ve never gone on a date or been anywhere but your apartments is exactly what she wanted too maybe the fact that she initiates the texting makes you HER booty call. I’m not saying this is the case, but you’ll never really know until you talk to her about this stuff.
In contrast to the long years of exile, am yisrael now has a home. In that home, the number of Jews is growing. If it is declining in the diaspora communities, perhaps it''s just a weeding-out process. Those who identify with the Jewish nation can live satisfying Jewish lives in Israel. Those who don''t identify with it can cast their lot with diaspora communities of their choice and bear the consequences.
Meanwhile, those who choose to identify with Judaism are swaying the demographic balance by having more children while the non-committed have fewer. Is this a bad thing?
Some say they already notice a revitalization that will dafka make Judaism more relevant to those who have drifted away. Organizations like Aish, that allow the uncommitted to explore the depths of Torah Judaism without pressure, do more for Jewish continuity than all the handwringing and demographic fear-mongering.
The root cause of contemporary egocentric dating-profile-writing is that it 8767 s understandably similar to appealing to employers via job applications and resume-writing. Until the writer understands that without the advantage of brand-name recognition, it must be clear beyond a doubt what value can be obtained, or what kind of experiences can be enjoyed. A photo is a nice 8775 feature, 8776 but it 8767 s what value you can describe about yourself that inspires an online dater to make the next move.
But love is an emotion.. and more. It involves a readiness to sacrifice for the other person. Most women knew that. Don 8767 t blame your pop songs and your Disney movie if you had not figured out that being in love and loving are different, that it usually requires the first for the second the happen. It could happen much sooner for those who are more predisposed to love and to make sacrifices for someone new. Others need time before they could give themselves up.
So what can you do to resist this kind of privacy invasion at work? The first step, of course, is to find out what your company will admit to. They aren’t actually required to disclose most types of monitoring, but there may be a written or unwritten policy that covers it. If you’re still losing sleep over this, we present a few ideas that should appeal to range of people including the mildly concerned and the truly paranoid. Oh and we’re not responsible if your attempts at subverting Big Brother land you a very private, but very unemployed life.
We keep coming here scratching our heads in sheer wonderment and utter amazement. Confounded and gobsmacked by the exception of the asshole being now the rule. We keep referring to a good man like he’s the Holy Grail. I love Monty Python, but the men of today clearly had hamsters for mothers and their fathers smelled of elderberries. And we keep coming here while the men keep going to and AskMen and I say the obvious point isn’t being dealt with