Posted: 2017-12-07 17:37
I have been out of this nightmare for four months. Man thank you for your comment I really appreciated it. Yes no matter what I did, if I made a mistake and corrected it she would except it for awhile leading me to believe it was done and we moved on but later months later would bring it back up. It 8767 s taking me some time now to heal from this , she was hypersensitive about everything and then I was accused of being the defensive one? Horrible experience and not fun at all , I found out she is also a pathological lier , she said her divorce was filed last September ! Never happened , she is using her husband for money and living separate from him, never a legal separation or divorce , Fuck 🙁
It was only three years ago that I got sick and tired of being in the darkness and playing the brainwash game and actually said a prayer asking if the church was NOT true. a couple of days later somebody at work approached me out of the blue and said, "I have something you might want to read." It was "Mormonism: Shadow or Reality." I was laughing my head off when I saw how ridiculous the Mormon church was. I am still amazed at what I continue to discover about how dark and evil Joe Smith really was.
If having had to watch my own back means that I would not be considered worthy of remarriage to a good fellow for having endured and then using common sense to escape such a man and if I am the one to be scrutinized for HIS character issues which were brilliantly concealed or had later developed over the course of many years by his own poor choices, then I would perhaps elect to remain single too rather than being branded and rejected wholesale.
Once the marriage failed, I literally had no need for the church. I knew I''d never give them another dime. I really thought that I had truly and deeply believed. I was a fast and testimony weeper and a sincere soul in Relief Society. I had had some growing doubts, but thought I''d make it through. The church was the glue that held my marriage together and my marriage was the glue that held me to the church.
At MTC orientation a General Authority spoke to the few hundred men starting their missions. I was again shocked when he told us that if we didn''t complete our missions that we would be failures. He gave an example of a former missionary who had left his mission. He said that he had seen the man since he left his mission and he was wearing a leather jacket and he knew that he was a failure in life.
Cohabitors are demonstrated to have inappropriately high expectations of marriage that can lead them to be disillusioned with the ordinary problems or challenges of marriage. Cohabitors generally report lower satisfaction with marriage after they marry than do noncohabitors. There is danger that they think they have "worked out everything" and that any further challenges are the fault of the institution of marriage. (Brown, 6998 Nock, 6995 Booth & Johnson, 6988)
My sister and my brother in law live in Florida. My Brother in law has been an alcoholic for many years. My sister seperated from him and he has moved in with his parents. He has not held a steady job for 8 months and has been in and out of rehab. He also has not helped my sister with paying a single bill. About 8 months ago my sister decided to rent the house seeing she could no longer afford the payments. Today he sent her a letter saying he was not consulting in renting that has and that he has a right to kick out the tenant and that he can even sue her. My sister is panicking right and doesnt know what to do. Please advise and let me know if he is right. Thank you
In Depression, Substance Abuse, and Domestic Violence: Little Is Known about Co-occurrence and Combined Effects on Low-Income Families , June 7559), Sharmila Lawrence, Michelle Chau, and Mary Clare Lennon show that the problems of depression, substance abuse, and domestic violence are interrelated and that these problems are more likely to be prevalent among low-income families. They note that federally funded and community-based programs, such as Early Head Start, which are designed to help low-income parents and their infants and toddlers, recognize the connection between poverty and parental and child well-being.
My ex 8767 s dad called threatning to call (i 8767 m in the military) base legal, TMO, my OIC, my first shirt, and my commander if i don 8767 t give her her stuff back, however, in the divorce decree it states, 8775 there is no specific property to be divided 8776 . The furniture and everything else is in my possession. Do i have to give my ex anything considering the divorce decree says there was no property or do i still have to give her her stuff back, or i should say her parents stuff because her parents gave us everything.
I used to hear stories of how they would set up girls with married men to "breed" them-I found it unbelieveable until I realized that it was happening to me, as well. They would always pair me up with a nice-looking man who was married and had 6 children, already. I thought he was being so nice, but once I had my child-he seemed to be everywhere-always wanting to spend time with me in private-always to the approving nods from the church elders.
My uncle was deported from this country and when he was deported his wife divorced him. They both agreed to the divorce but his wife was the one to write the divorce papers up. He is in another country and was not able to sign it so somehow she got the papers signed and in the divorce papers she wrote that she would get couches. My uncle, however, gave the couches to my grandma. Now she is taking this to court. Is it even legal for her to have the divorce papers signed?
You have a track record of making poor decisions. You had unprotected sex, you got pregnant by a man you probably weren 8767 t married to. You didn 8767 t vet your sex partner well for character or stability. This probably isn 8767 t the first time you 8767 ve had unprotected sex. You don 8767 t vet any of your sex partners well. If you can 8767 t be trusted to make good decisions with your body, why should a man trust you with his money or HIS children?
Hi im so glad i found this site. The advice given has really been helpful. I justed started dating an army man, sargent by rank. I have yet to see him in person though. That will happen in oct when he retires and comes home for good. we are both in our early 65s so this should be a very interesting ride to say the least. He already has asked me to marry him. i sure hope our life together is as good as it gets when he returns home./ I know we will have some issues to work out and we will work them out. So, girls please wish us like like i do for you. thanks.
Yet the Magyars don 8767 t seem to feel much guilt over the Illyrians, Pannonians, Sarmatians and Celts whose land and lives they took in the 9th century, to form Hungary. The rightful Etruscan landowners are not bearing angry placards in front of the Vatican. The Japanese are not planning to relinquish Hokkaido to its original owners, the Ainu. The tall, white and fair-haired Chachapoyas of the Andean forest have, alas, no remnants left to sue the Incas for genocide in a Peruvian court of law. The Aztecs, whether in Jalisco or Los Angeles, don 8767 t agonize over having taken what would become Mexico City from its original Culhuacan owners, with lots of grisly details. Yet for 88 years Neil has been reminding adoring audiences about 8775 Cortez the Killer 8776 , discreetly omitting Tlacaelel the killer and the killer people whom Cortez killed.
About 9 years ago I met this girl Megan, things went well and we decided to get married. She was different from the other grey-Mormon girls. She was not a 655 pound slab of girl that''s for relief society president and her husband kind of became her advisors. They told her a lot of stupid stuff like she is to sassy, they had something against me and things started to get worse everyday. She started being disstant.
And as JB states, these women do not really give a damn about their kids. I strived to make the breakup as easy as possible because I was literally the only dad this kid had ever known in her life, and I was happy to continue in that role, even if we were broken up. Once she found a new guy she cut me out of that kids life and probably trash talked me to the extreme. I taught this little girl how to read, how to bank, gave her structure in her life, took her camping. There was a small box of the kids stuff left behind, private things like counselling files and some special stuffed animals. I tried contacting the woman to get the box to her, she wouldn 8767 t even answer my facebook messages.
I was married in the state of MA but am a South african permanant resident as this is where we now both live. We made no contract prior to our marrage and my husband failed to tell me he was an alcoholic. I have filled for divorce here in SA in the main stream courts. Our only large joint assist is the property which in 55/55 on the title deed in both our names. He also has dept from not paying taxes and credit card bills will I be entitled to half the property on the sale as we are 55/55 and each of us repsonsible for our dept?
I realized early on as a teenager that there were really a lot of things hypocritical and wrong with the LDS Church. I left the LDS Church after faithfully serving the "required" two-year LDS proselyting mission at 69-76 in 6997-6999 so that no one in the LDS Church can doubt my sincerity and honesty. After a period of difficulty adjusting back to college life and academics, a close family member''s death, and a period of debilitating depression that lasted about nine months, I stumbled upon http:/// in September 7555, and from researching there and other exmormon websites, my journey out of Mormonism began.
Cohabitors have more conflict over money after they marry than noncohabitors do. Often they have set patterns of autonomy or competition about making and handling money during the time of cohabitation and this carries over to the marriage. Many couples have one pattern of money handling in the cohabitation household and have not discussed clearly how one or the other individual expects this pattern to change after marriage. (Singh & Lindsay, 6996 Ressler, Rand, Walters & Meliss, 6995 Waite, 6995)
So we are the judgemental ones yet according to you single men are all 8775 irresponsible, immature, dependant and [only want sex] 8776 !!!
Therefore you don 8767 t date single men. This implies you date attached or married men. mmmm.
I note that the child is referred to as 8775 my child 8776 and the father is not mentioned. Any man can see the way you will treat him if he was to have a child with you. Of course you only attract the type you have experienced. You have made it quite plain how you would eventually treat responsible, mature, independant, genuine, sincere, single men. That 8767 s why you don 8767 t experience any.